As a husband, the most important it to love your wife
As a wife, the most important it to respect your husband

As a parent, the most important is to love your children

As a daughter or son, the most important is to take care yourself and never be worried by your parents


A person may take more than one role always in a life. But just only one role you can't hide away is "YOURSELF"

As a "self", the most important is to love your own and make yourself happy. Can you do that?

How to do that?
Before taking any action, think about "if I really feel “HAPPY” inside if I do it?", if not, don’t do that

"HAPPY" means you will be peaceful and have satisfaction in consequence. If you do something there’s no such “gain” at the end. Don’t do that

Somehow you can choose to do something, but somehow you can choose to do NOTHING.

If you think it's harsh to push yourself to do many things to be “happy”, why don’t you give up doing the things and make yourself happy?

Not to hurt yourself
Not to hurt others
Not to find excuse to escape from your responsibility
Not to lie yourself

"NOT" theory is applicable to you!?